How to Combat the Dismissive Avoidant’s Defensiveness in Conflict When you’re in conflict with a Dismissive Avoidant (DA), remember: direct demands and ultimatums usually backfire. The DA nervous system is wired to perceive pressure as control, which triggers shutdown, defensiveness, or even stonewalling. Instead, try this: Lead with what feels good. Instead of saying “You never spend time with me”, reframe it into something affirming: ➡️ “I love it when we spend time together without our phones
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How to Combat the Dismissive Avoidant’s Defensiveness in Conflict When you’re in conflict with a Dismissive Avoidant (DA), remember: direct demands and ultimatums usually
Dr. Sarah Hensley. . How to Combat the Dismissive Avoidant’s Defensiveness in Conflict When you’re in conflict with a Dismissive Avoidant (DA), remember: direct demands and ultimatums usually backfire. The DA nervous system is wired to perceive pressure as control, which triggers shutdown, defensiveness, or even stonewalling. Instead, try ...
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PSYCHOLOGISTS REVEAL: 7 signs the body gives away when someone is lying 🧠 When your partner hides something, the body automatically reveals: 1️⃣ Constant eye avoidance 2️⃣ Change in tone of voice 3️⃣ Exaggerated defensive behavior (And there are 4 more that most people ignore...) It's not paranoia - it's behavioral SCIENCE. Learn to identify before it's too late 💡 | Susam Spencer
PSYCHOLOGISTS REVEAL: 7 signs the body gives away when someone is lying 🧠 When your partner hides something, the body automatically reveals: 1️⃣ Constant eye avoidance 2️⃣ Change in tone of voice 3️⃣ Exaggerated defensive behavior (And there are 4 more that most people ignore...) It's not paranoia - it's behavioral SCIENCE. Learn to identify before it's too late 💡 | Susam Spencer
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53K views · 332 reactions | Do you recognize signs of a defensive horse? Horse may display: *Tension in body *Braced posture *Wrinkles above & below eyes *Flared nostrils *Heavy breathing *Visual Avoidance The Horse's Physical Behavior reflects their Mental and Emotional state. An extremely fearful, defensive horse that had arrived for ReEducation. #alternativehorsemanship #RemoteHorseCoach #horses #horse #horsebehavior | Alternative Horsemanship with Samantha Harvey | Facebook
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5.6K views · 93 reactions | Horse Behavior: Signs of a Defensive Equine Rescue mare's past unknown. Watch previous Arrival & Defensive Pressure Video for initial assessment. #alternativehorsemanship #RemoteHorseCoach #horses #horse #horsebehavior #horsebehaviour #horsehelp #horseproblems #rescuehorse | Alternative Horsemanship with Samantha Harvey | Facebook
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