Spoiled kids are made, not born. Paulus Rusyanto / EyeEm via Getty Images A spoiled child is used to getting what they want when they want it with few exceptions.

A spoiled child is used to getting what they want when they want it with few exceptions. “Every kid has an off-day —and so do adults — but spoiled kids are stuck in ‘me’ mode,” said ...

3. They have tantrums to get what they want Tantrums aren't manipulation — they're a cry for help. Children in meltdown mode are typically overwhelmed and lack the skills to process big emotions.

As a conscious parenting researcher and coach, I've studied over 200 kids, and I've found that spoiled behavior can sometimes indicate unmet needs.