Are you OK?” is the single most infuriating question I ask my husband Ross, apparently. Perhaps that’s because I’ve asked him ...

Or do I hold out hope that maybe, somehow, she’ll rediscover her own desire and we’ll reconnect in this part of our marriage before it’s too late? —My Hands Are Getting Tired ...

Same-sex marriage had been outlawed in Ohio since 2004, when both the Ohio Legislature and voters approved separate measures banning it. Arthur died three months after the couple’s Maryland wedding.