Mom: I still love you and miss you very much. I hope I've made you and Dad proud of my accomplishments and my life. — Jay Wilson, Martinsville, Virginia.

If either you or your partner is feeling too often more “unlikeable to the other,” even if your love still feels mostly secure, you can avoid irreversible damage if you face what is going on.

Mom: I still love you and miss you very much. I hope I've made you and Dad proud of my accomplishments and my life. — Jay Wilson, Martinsville, Virginia.

And I looked at my bedroom window and I saw ‘Chicken Farmer, I Still Love You.’” Repainted — with that new word — ‘still.’ “And I thought, wow, that's really nice," she said.

But I find I still love my ex. What should I do. Dear Abby: I got divorced a year and one-half ago. Raising two teen boys is a financial struggle.

Once you do that, you may find a future with Rob more to your liking. Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips.

DEAR ABBY: I have been divorced from my ex-husband, “Cliff,” for a year and a half. My nearly adult children live with me. They rarely see their dad.