Then, my daughter, who is now 22, and her boyfriend got pregnant. They were living with us and paying £350 a month in rent. We had the space, but it was important for them to be independent.

I have a 4-year-old son, but the real reason I feel confident responding to your letters is that I am my mother’s daughter. My mom, Pat Sachon, gave me compassionate, beautiful guidance for all ...

My daughter, who is in her 30s, moved to Texas with her husband about a year ago — and since then, she hasn’t spoken to me. Not a text, not a call, not even a holiday card.

Submit it here. (It’s anonymous!) Dear Care and Feeding, I have a 16-year-old daughter, “Veronica.” Yesterday, Veronica was bending down to pick up the cat when I saw something shocking.