Two decades after Brad Pitt and Jennifer Aniston split up, the Friends star has dished on the “love triangle” that became the centerpoint of media scrutiny. In a new interview, the Emmy winner even revealed how the public exposure to the private events affected her “personally.

Her support system to this day includes some of the era’s biggest tabloid targets such as Sandra Bullock and Pitt’s other ex, Gwyneth Paltrow. Pitt, meanwhile, should be afraid of the gossip they exchange when they’re together. “How can we not?” Aniston says. “We’re girls.”

The Jolie, Pitt, and Aniston love triangle was all anyone could talk about and still talk about. It was the juiciest piece of gossip at the time when Jolie, Pitt, and Aniston were at the height of their careers, with Aniston keeping what happened and how she felt out of the spotlight, until now.