With the average price of a wedding here running $35,000 for 100 people, the after-party can put you out an additional $7,000 for as many guests, says Flota. “It’s another event to spend time ...

Guests don't need glow sticks to dance. Klaus Vedfelt/Getty Images Amy Kolodziej, a wedding photographer, said dance-floor props can detract from the elegance of a wedding reception.

You shouldn't serve more than three courses at the reception Even if you and your partner are foodies, a wedding reception isn't the best time for a seven-course dining experience.