Conflict feels inevitable when provocateurs try to attract our attention, but recognizing the trap lets us break free and focus our energy where we choose.

The president-elect’s benefactor Elon Musk aimed his fire at a familiar target, blaming the LAFD for “prioritizing DEI [diversity, equity and inclusion] over saving lives and homes.” ...

You’re better than that. Or at least you should be better than that. That’s my message to everyone who continues to blame the ...