Implying that there’s more fun to be had elsewhere isn’t the only way you can botch your response to a social invitation.

Pay attention to whether an invitation includes an RSVP, how the invitation is delivered ... be it a yes or a no. So reply, and reply quickly, preferably as soon as possible.

If, for whatever reason, you need to RSVP later, make note of the deadline in your calendar. While some guests forget to reply, others send their responses bsck late. On every wedding invitation ...

Please remind your readers of the importance of RSVP. My daughter’s wedding is a week away, and I need a number! Several ...

If your RSVP is something short of that ... Parker recommends following this formula: acknowledge the invitation; honor something about it, like the host’s creativity or vision; express ...

Part of me also feels that you don’t get the courtesy of an invitation if you never show or if you repeatedly fail to RSVP.

Miss Manners assures you that the repeated offense of not answering an invitation justifies not getting another one. She further suggests you use caution with the excuse that they will not come anyway ...

In some cases, they RSVP “no,” but other times they do not reply at all ... to them that two people present didn’t get an invitation. Suddenly I felt like we did the wrong thing by not ...