There are many things people will do when they’re mentally checked out and barely functioning that we often miss. Beneath these behaviors is a quiet plea for help. It is important to recognize them.

It’s like he’s checked out years ago and is just going through the motions. I’m not looking for fireworks or grand gestures; I just want to feel like we’re partners again. I want to feel seen.

May's most checked-out books in Cincinnati's public library branches include Kristin Hannah's "The Women," David Baldacci's "To Die For," and Janet Evanovich's "Now or Never." Books from the "Dog ...