DEAR ABBY: For nearly 30 years, my husband and I shared a close, trusting marriage. Months ago, I caught him lying about meetings he was having with a 35-year-old colleague. Then I discovered ...

Dear Abby: After the gaslighting, he wants me to trust him again When I found his texts, he said I was making a big deal out of nothing ...

DEAR ABBY: For nearly 30 years, my husband and I shared a close, trusting marriage. Months ago, I caught him lying about meetings he was having with a 35-year-old colleague.

Abby hears from a woman whose husband's defensiveness over texts with female colleague can't be taken back, while a reader bemoans friend's choice of abusive alcoholic partner.

DEAR ABBY: For nearly 30 years, my husband and I shared a close, trusting marriage. Months ago, I caught him lying about meetings he was having with a 35-year-old colleague.

DEAR ABBY: For nearly 30 years, my husband and I shared a close, trusting marriage. Months ago, I caught him lying about meetings he was having with a 35-year-old colleague.

A woman engaged to her partner of eight years feels more like a caretaker than a fiancée.

DEAR ABBY: I have been in a relationship with my now-fiance for eight years. I’m five years older than he is. I know he loves me, but I’m not sure if he’s still in love with me.

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DEAR ABBY: My husband has four grown children — one from his first marriage; three with his late wife. Talk about drama! Who talks to whom? Who can’t stand whom?