Or perhaps he has harboured a crush on you and repressed the desire – particularly as you are his cousin – only for it to come out as rage after a few drinks. His attack on your so-called lack ...

Confused Cousin Dear Confused: You can’t save someone who doesn’t want to be saved. Your cousin is making destructive choices, but she’s also made it clear that any pushback will lead to ...

The asymmetry of knowledge is bound to shadow your interactions with your cousin. When you see her, you must feel the weight of what you know even as you keep it hidden, like a stone in your pocket.