We recently asked the married women of the BuzzFeed Community to tell us the "hardest parts" of marriage that no one talks about. Here's what they had to say: 1."The loneliness, sacrifice, losing ...

New York Times columnist Nicholas Kristof's defense of marriage, "The Case for Saying 'I Do,'" missed one important thing: For many women, marriage isn't so great, Naomi Ishisaka writes.