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Even people who've attended dozens of weddings may need a brush-up on the rules. INSIDER asked an expert about the biggest etiquette do's and don'ts.

Updated: 12:47 PM CDT Apr 29, 2016 Editorial Standards ⓘ KMBC 9 News Staff KANSAS CITY, Mo. — A Kansas City wedding planner is offering tips for saving money on the bride's big day.

Do the same if their parents are in the wedding party and they are younger. If you already have children you may want to seat them at the top table, depending on guest count and space options. Don'ts: ...