That's what Tosha Barr did in regard to her estranged husband, Travis Barr. Safe on Seven, which is gradually helping to turn the tide against domestic violence, had tried to help Tosha Barr.

Barr went to Tosha Barr's apartment twice on the morning of July 19, 2008, before coming a third time at 6 a.m., kicking in a window and going inside, where he stabbed Tosha Barr to death ...

Police said Travis Lawan Barr, 34, of 1206 E. 23rd St., was charged with murder in the death of Tosha Casandore Barr, 25, who lived at 4260 Brownsboro Road in an apartment.

Tosha Barr asked a judge to drop the most recent order in May. "Travis Barr is the only baby sitter that I have. I need my job," she wrote in her request.