so there isn't really a template for it," she noted. Most of all, Ellert-McDermott urged couples to be "genuinely unique" when writing their vows or getting assistance with their vows.

Writing the perfect marriage vows is more complicated that it would seem for some people. Even for excellent writers and thoughtful romantics it can be tough since there's a lot of intensity that ...

Heidi Ellert-McDermott, 46, said writing your own vows can be the perfect meaningful ... recent phenomenon - so there isn't really a template for it." Heidi said the first thing couples should ...