"Grams" gifted Kristine a birthday card along with a tiny polka-dot party hat — complete with pink fluff and ribbon. "We were just tickled by it, it was so cute," Goodyear recalls.

If you're organizing a birthday party for a kid the tasks can quickly start to add up — you'll need to get a cake, gifts, and plan some fun games. But none of this will matter if no one shows up!

Dear Miss Manners: We are preparing to celebrate my daughter’s fourth birthday and are hosting her first party. We don’t expect any gifts. The invitation is extended for them to come celebrate ...