Nothing more. He offers no rent, and no help with bills. I do all the yard work, cooking and cleaning. I am also in charge of the house maintenance. I do all the real food shopping she and I pay for.

I understand why you wouldn’t want to care about anything when you’re tired, hot all the time and can’t think straight. But while it’s tempting, I’m not joining the We Do Not Care Club.

Advice Asking Eric: I am my mother’s primary caregiver and my siblings are clueless as to how much I do Published: Feb. 02, 2025, 7:00 a.m.