Ultimately, as long as there are no-win scenarios, the Kobayashi Maru scenario will always be remembered. Read the original article on Looper.
Another one of those first steps towards it would be to realise that nothing in life, not even the Kobayashi Maru, is ever quite so simple as win-win/lose-lose. Plus, to think in such binary terms ...
The Kobayashi Maru test was designed to be unwinnable ... Prior to this, Captain Kirk from The Original series faced so many virtually impossible scenarios only to win in the end.