Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips.

I’ve witnessed it myself. I’m not sorry for dating him; she deserves to be alone. They have no children. I’m not trying to be foolish about this situation. Do you think I’m a terrible person?

She knows that’s against the rules, and bad for her besides ... and I’m not so dumb that I think that telling her to stay away from her boyfriend is going to help. How can I make sure my ...