How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Jessica and Rich here. It’s anonymous! Dear How to Do It, I have been married to my wife for 17 years. About 12 years ago, before ...

Mo Vaughn doesn’t allow himself to drive his son home from baseball games. It’s because he hears his own father’s voice. “I know what it is to have that parent that’s just constantly leaning on you,” ...