RADHA:And so am I, were all feeling happy today. BEN:Of course we are ... Go on, you say. BEN:Oh, OK, well, um, it started last week. I had a brilliant idea for a birthday surprise for you.

Was that a happy smile ... that all feelings are OK… But not all behaviour is. Tell your child what you are feeling, and what you're gonna do about it. I'm feeling sad. So I'm gonna play ...