We’d get Hazel a cute little present and jump on a bouncy castle, or whatever it is you do at 3-year-old birthdays. But then I noticed the text at the bottom of the invite: No gifts.

Buckley recommended games, crafts, pop culture gifts, fidgets, and video games for tweens. Before buying a gift, find out what brands, franchises, and video games the 12-year-old on your list is into.