I do not want to, but I don’t know how to say it without hurting her feelings. I can only make excuses for so long. She’ll find out I’ve traveled with other people.

DEAR ERIC: I have a friend of several decades and recently learned she is a hoarder. We always met outside our homes for coffee or lunch. I just assumed it was more convenient. A few months ago ...

It’s helpful to have a friend speak the truth plainly and clearly. (Send questions to R. Eric Thomas at eric@askingeric.com or P.O. Box 22474, Philadelphia, PA 19110.

Life & Culture Asking Eric: How do I tell my good friend we don’t want her dog in our pool anymore Published: Jul. 04, 2025, 12:04 a.m.