So, what's the other way? When he wakes up, takes his phone, and the first thing that pops up on his screen is cute good morning paragraphs for him from you, it's sure going to set a positive tone ...

DEAR MISS MANNERS: If someone comes downstairs in the morning, who should be the one to say “hello” (or “good morning ... Miss Manners assures you, as cute as you may think.