Annie Millerbernd is a former assistant assigning editor and NerdWallet authority on personal loans. She has been a journalist for nearly a decade. Before joining NerdWallet in 2019, she worked as ...

Dear Annie: I’ve been married for 16 years, and lately, I’m not sure I want to stay in this marriage. I’ve always been the steady one -- the saver, the planner, the person who makes sure the ...